Tag: Stop the Good Girl Identity
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Sigma? Beta? Gamma? Alpha? A Formation of a New Sorority, or a Deeper Dive in Life?
The moment that I first heard about a Sigma woman, and all about how she sees life-I instantly resonated. It was as though I was just introduced to some sort of secret society, and they just shared a secret handshake with me. But let me…
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How to Find a Toxic Person in the Dark!
The title of this specific post sounds more like the beginning of a bad joke. But I assure you that when dealing with a toxic person it can be no laughing matter, and yes when dealing with someone like this, it can make you feel…
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Are You Gaslighting Yourself? Beware of Toxic Positivity!
Why are you gaslighting yourself? To combat self-gaslighting, it can be helpful to: Recognizing self-gaslighting is the first step towards reclaiming your sense of self and establishing a healthier relationship with your thoughts and emotions. Whenever you’re in the presence of someone who carries an…
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I’m Not Here to Comfort Your Feelings…I’m Here to Be Honest!
Hey…Besties, Beauties, and Sigmas, Sage here again! I need a moment, tonight I went to an HOA meeting in the building where I live. A total of 6 people live in our building, so it was a small gathering. Well, as I shared my perspective…
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It’s Not Just You…or Them, It’s Both of You!
I don’t know about you, but when I’ve encountered a toxic person, it leaves my head spinning! Wondering first, “Seriously, did you just say that?” And second, “Wow, what a lack of awareness.” Not to mention the lingering, mind-fogging, rehashing of events or conversations that…
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Survival Kit for Toxic People…Because Their Behavior SUCKS!
As a lifetime member of the “What the fuck just happened?” club. It took me a lifetime to learn, adjust, and accept that toxic people need to live in their own space, and that space is something that I prefer not to invest in. As…
